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quietroomineedyounow said: Wonderful photos :) One of my housemates is from Bath so hopefully I’ll be able to go there over summer, I didn’t realise how pretty it is.

Definitely do visit! It’s a gorgeous city -  and especially worth visiting in nice weather, as there are tons of parks and squares full of cafés and quirky tea places.

hpolleyphotography said: Ah, I loved Bath. :)

I’ve definitely joined the fan club :D When I lived up north my go to place for taking friends and family visiting England was York; I think Bath is going to become the Southern version.


franiefroufrou said: The best veggie restaurant (Demuths) I’ve ever been to is in Bath. If I’d known you were going I would have told (ordered!) you to visit (not cheap but completely worth the splurge). Lovely photos as always

Aw, I wish I’d known! We could have gone there instead of Yo Sushi (which I do enjoy, but there’s one of those everywhere :P). PS: Kings of Convenience next week already, yay. Excited :D

 

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On my mind today

  • Illness. I had to call in sick for the first time since starting my job today (stomach bug, hopefully not food poisoning), and although I know it’s ridiculous to feel guilty and like I’m failing, somehow I still do.
  • Anxiety. I had a really lovely week - on Monday I saw Phoenix and it was one of the best shows I’d been on in ages; Tuesday was WBN and I had a ton of fun passing on books I love; Wednesday I had a lovely and frankly staggering surprise. These were all good things, but somehow by Thursday all I wanted to do was hide under the bed. I know that feeling overwhelmed by good things isn’t all that uncommon, but it always leaves me feeling like there’s something fundamentally wrong with me.
  • Reaching out and why it’s so hard. The past few days I’ve been feeling like I could really use a friend, but it’s hard to reach out to specific people when everyone has so much on their plate already and you know that your emotional needs may very well be the last straw for them at that moment. Asking directly for support is something I struggle with a lot.
  • All the times I fail to “be brave and be kind” and slip into small-mindedness instead.
  • This post and the wisdom of hitting “publish” when I’m done here.
  • Writing and when I’ll ever get it done. It’s hard to make it fit into the current structure of my life, and yet I know that if I gave it up I’d feel empty.
  • Music, and how having it on all morning kept anxiety and guilt and even physical misery to some extent at bay. I should do this more often.

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crysmilecry asked: I *think*, but I might very well be wrong, that you watch(ed) Borgen? DR have had a lot of success lately, with that and Forbrytelsen and Broen, all of which have had a female main character. NRK interviewed the leader of the drama department in DR and she said they are, quote "tired of strong women" unquote and that the writers are "begging" to get to write about men. She says he think male leads will be a trend in Denmark starting now. I just, I mean, GRR, I need a someone to rant with me.

Yep, big Borgen fan here. I just… have no words :| It reminds me of the time someone said girl protagonists were “an overdone trope” in YA. It just goes to show the extent to which stories about boys and men are perceived as the default. Tell a bunch of those and it’s business as usual, but have more than 10% stories about women and it’s OH NOES WHEN WILL THIS TIRESOME TREND END.

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Cry. Smile. Cry.: nymeth: crysmilecry: nymeth replied to your post: theghostofbarry...

nymeth:

crysmilecry:

YES YOU SHOULD START A BOOK BLOG.

Um?

But I don’t even know how and also I am not as smart or well read or eloquent as all of you guys and sometimes I don’t read anything…

If it helps, I’ve been doing this for six years and I STILL struggle with those fears every day. It’s a work in progress, but what I count as success is not so much never feeling that way as it is feeling it and going ahead and doing it anyway.

Again, no pressure whatsoever, but books and politics! I’d be all over that :D

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